Midlife is an adventure, but for some of us, it can feel like a surprise guest that shows up and leaves a bunch of new rules on the table.
Things feel a little different, right?
Your body might not be bouncing back as quickly as it used to, and staying active might feel less like a fun jog and more like a struggle.
I get it. I’m right there with you.
My goal is to not give you another generic list of “must-dos” on midlife fitness for women. It’s to share what I’m actually learning about moving through this stage of life with a bit more strength and confidence.
Chasing marathon records or lifting massive weights doesn’t matter. What does is finding a rhythm that works for you, right now.
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A New Mindset for Midlife Movement
I’ll be honest. I’m still figuring out how to rethink staying fit in middle age.
My body isn’t the same as it was in my 20s, and I’m dealing with things like a slower metabolism, less muscle, and flexibility that seems to have disappeared overnight. The old rules just don’t work for me anymore.
The shift is happening now as I stop trying to force my body to be something it’s not and start learning to understand these changes.
The upside is, understanding those shifts gives me the power to create a routine that works for me, right now.
I’ve found that low-impact movement is a great way to start. It’s gentle on my joints and still helps me stay strong without pushing too far.
The most important lesson for me right now is setting goals that feel good, not impossible. I’m focused on a daily walk or simple movements that keep me active and feeling alive. Staying consistent is what’s making the difference.
To help you get started with these simple movements, I’ve created a free guide to help you stretch, strengthen, and get active again.
My Warm-up Routine (And Why I Don’t Skip It Anymore)
My warm-up routine used to be nonexistent. I’d just jump right into a movement, thinking my body could handle it. But that led to feeling more sore and sluggish than necessary.
That’s because my body isn’t what it used to be. And that’s not me being sarcastic either, it’s my reality.
A few mindful minutes before and after a movement can seriously change how my body feels and how fast it bounces back. I’m talking about warming up to get my blood flowing and my muscles loose.
I’ve found that a simple 5-10 minute paced walk or light jog does the trick. Then, I’ll add in some arm circles or leg swings, whatever gets things moving without overdoing it.
And cool-down stretches are mandatory. My muscles need a little TLC to stay flexible and avoid stiffness.
I don’t have room to travel with a foam roller, but when one is available, I make sure to use it. It’s a great tool for getting into those extra-tight spots and is amazing for muscle recovery. A little extra love to my hamstrings, quads, shoulders, and back goes a long way.
Cardio That Works
When I do any type of cardio, I move for the energy it gives me and how it clears my head.
For consistent movement, I walk daily. And having the right pair of running/walking shoes makes all the difference.
My goal is to get a 15-30 minute walk in on Monday through Saturday and on Sundays, I’ll go for an hour or more. It’s one of the easiest ways for me to move my body and feel good.
On top of that, I make time for at least one 30-minute HIIT/cardio session each week from a YouTube channel that I subscribe to.
I hear so many women say they can’t do HIIT because of their joints or whatever excuse they may have, but you can.
It’s okay to modify movements, and just because you do doesn’t mean it’s not a real HIIT or cardio session. You just move different.
No matter how I move, it’s a great way to get my heart pumping and feel my body working.
Other great low-impact options are swimming or cycling, if you have access to them.
And on days you just need to have fun, put on a pair of ear buds, listen to your favorite playlist and dance your pants off. That’s always a good way to get your heart pumping.
Here’s what a typical walk looks like for me:
I start at a relaxed pace for the first 5 minutes or so, then I go full steam for the next 20 minutes. To finish it all off, I slow it down the last 2-5 minutes of the walk.
It’s a simple system that gets the job done.
The Strength I’m Building
On top of my daily cardio, I used to think of midlife strength training as a very rigid thing. I’d overthink everything and get stuck because I felt like I wasn’t doing a movement to the fullest.
But as a digital nomad, I have to be flexible. I can’t always access weights or a gym, so I had to learn to move with what I have. I’ve realized that it’s okay for my routine to look different. My goal is just to keep strong.
That’s why resistance bands are my main partner when I’m on the go. I’ve learned to get creative and use them for all my movements. I rely on different YouTube channels to guide me, and I’m not afraid to modify or substitute movements if I have to. I just have to find a way to get it done.
My weekly baseline is more of a rough template than a strict schedule. Monday, Wednesday, and Saturday are full-body days. I focus on my upper body on Tuesday and my lower body on Thursday. Friday is a HIIT day, and Sunday is active recovery with mobility movements or a long walk.
I do adjust it sometimes depending on travel days and destination changes. The main thing is to keep it consistent, no matter where I am.
The Unsung Heroes
Flexibility and balance were things I used to take for granted. I knew they were important, but somewhere along the way, working at keeping them was forgotten.
As I get older, I’ve realized how much they help with my recovery and the simple ease of midlife movement.
To stay steady on my feet, I have a morning and evening mobility routine that only takes about 5-7 minutes.
In the mornings, my goal is to get my joints lubed, blood moving, and shake off sleep stiffness.
This includes controlled neck rolls, cat-cows, the world’s greatest stretch a couple times each side along with hip 90/90 switches, banded pull-aparts to open up my chest, and a few inchworms to plank.
And in the evenings, my goal is to downshift my nervous system, release tight spots, and prepare my body to fully rest and reset for the next day.
A seated spinal twist, child’s pose with a side stretch, and some knee-over-toe ankle rocks are key movements. I’ll also thread the needle, do gentle Cossack squats, and finish with slow, segmented roll-downs.
For a little extra help, I use a non-slip yoga mat (when I have access to one) and a couple of yoga blocks to add extra support or a deep stretch to any movement.
Making Movement a Habit
Finding consistency can be a challenge. The more I weave movement into my daily midlife routine, the better I feel as I get older. I’ve learned to find what works for me.
Not a whole lot of time is needed, and every little bit counts. I look for simple ways to add movement without it feeling like a hassle.
If I have access to stairs instead of an elevator, I’ll take them. When I go to the market, I’ll park further away from the entrance to get more steps in, or if it’s close enough, I’ll just walk there.
During my work breaks, I’ll do a few stretches or even walk up and down the stairs a couple of times if I’m in a two-story place.
I also use my smartwatch to track my steps and keep up with the timing of my walks. It’s a great way to stay consistent.
Keeping It Fun
I’ve learned that for me, the more I enjoy movement, the more likely I am to stick with it. That’s why I’m always looking for ways to keep it interesting.
As a digital nomad, the fun is in the exploration. I love finding new walking trails everywhere I go, and I’ve even joined local meetup groups for their walking adventures.
Switching up my weekly movements also helps. Sometimes it’s yoga, Pilates, or even a low-impact session on YouTube. Trying different classes keeps things fresh.
I’ll drop in on barre, rowing, different kinds of yoga, and even pole classes, anything to keep me moving and trying something new. And if I’m in a place with water and a paddle board is available, I’m on it. Because the point is to move, and anything you do can be fun.
Celebrating my wins doesn’t come in pampering or treats. My body feels good after I do any kind of movement, and I make a point to notice that.
There’s a sense of accomplishment in honoring my body and acknowledging myself for showing up. For me, it’s a given. My body deserves to move not just as a form of self-care, but so that it can sustain for the long run.
What It Comes Down To
It all comes down to this: you don’t have to follow anyone else’s rules.
I’ve learned that the key to midlife movement is to find a way to move that’s authentic to you and your life.
Finding what works for you doesn’t have to be complicated. Just keep moving. Daily cardio, finding new ways to do strength training on the go, making time for mobility, or simply finding new ways to keep it fun, every little bit counts.
If you’re rethinking what staying healthy looks like in midlife, you might find some answers in my post, Staying Healthy After 40 (a New Narrative).
And, before you go, don’t forget to grab my free guide with simple movements to help you stretch, strengthen, and get active again.
